Coldplay vs Hotplay

Who doesn’t love gossip? We watch, share, and laugh about it all the time. Look at us right now going to town with a Coldplay kiss cam video! 

The truth is, most people: men and women, sometimes find others more attractive than their own partners. And it's natural to form connections with people outside our relationships. Expecting one person to meet all our emotional, physical, and intellectual needs can be a bit unfair. Deep down, we all know this.

We also admire celebrities! Men might keep staring at pictures of Kim Kardashian, and women swoon over Shah Rukh Khan on TV. Are these just harmless fantasies and admiration? 

Sometimes, at work or in social settings, we meet someone and feel a strong pull towards them. We talk, we share things, we laugh. Dopamine gets released in the brain, and suddenly we’re feeling good, maybe even confused. It is not always love, but sometimes it is! Sometimes its just chemistry, hormones, and timing (sometimes bad timing) 

And that’s when we’re being tested. Society tells us to not act on it. Just feel the feeling and let it pass. But in the heat of the moment, it’s hard. Our self-control gets challenged. It becomes a weak spot. We cave in, regret takes over, then we just hate that moment. We want to fix it! But some of us like it, we like it so much we just don’t like getting caught! 

But at the end of the day, we’re only human. We feel things, and sometimes, those feelings can’t be controlled and it can get really complicated and make us uncomfortable. 

When any mistake is made, if you feel you have done something wrong, all you have to do is, take this as a lesson, make changes and move on. But what if you enjoyed it? You’ll forever be in your own prison!