3 Rules to follow

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1. Surround yourself with people whose eyes light up when they see you coming.

Not everyone who enters your life is meant to stay. Some people reveal their true colours over time. When they no longer need you, they move away and that’s okay.

You don’t have to keep holding space for people who only show up when it’s convenient for them. Even if they’re family, it’s okay to walk away from places where you feel disrespected or blamed for things you didn’t do alone. You deserve to be in circles where you’re valued, respected, and genuinely wanted.


2. Slowly, is the fastest way to get to where you want you be. 

You don’t need shortcuts or quick wins. You’d rather take your time, work with care, and build something gradually. It’s like investing, you value steady, long term growth than the rush that day trading gives to you. Even learning music is enjoyable when you work on something slowly and keep working at it, till you get it up to speed. 


3. The top of one mountain is the bottom of the next. So keep climbing.

You’re never really done. There are always new experiences to have, new things to learn, new parts of yourself to discover. Achieving anything isn’t the finish line, it’s just the starting point for what comes next. So keep trying, keep growing, and most of all… keep climbing.

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