Rehearsals with the Brats!

It’s quite fulfilling to be able to do my job as a music teacher. I have been giving full attention to my students for the past 41 days! And the result is glorious!!

Yesterday, we had slightly longer rehearsals and they all got cranky and judgmental! Most of them were just laughing at each other’s flaws and was not focused on their own work. Some of them were easily emotional, overwhelmed with the performance anxiety while others were just plain hungry. So I had to step in and speak up. 

So I sent a  message on WhatsApp group with the parents and students. It went like this..

Hey everyone,

I want to take a moment to talk about some things that will help all of us create a better environment here. This is a place where we’re not just learning music but also how to be respectful, responsible, and supportive of each other. Let’s make it a space where everyone feels valued and encouraged.

Support Each Other – Mistakes are part of learning, and none of us are here to be perfect. Let’s avoid laughing or making anyone feel small for their mistakes. Instead, cheer each other on! Think of the kind of environment you’d want for yourself—one that’s uplifting and encouraging. That’s what we want to create here.

Take Care of Your Instruments – Your instruments are part of your growth. When they’re neglected, it reflects on you too. Make sure they’re well-kept, dust-free, and properly maintained. Small things, like cleaning and changing strings when needed, go a long way.

Play with Intent – Every time you play, listen closely to what you’re producing. If something sounds off, work on it; that’s what learning is about! And remember, I’m here to help guide you if you need it.

Keep Your Instruments in Tune – Instruments can go out of tune easily, so make it a habit to check frequently. We have options to mute and tune—use them so we can hear your best.

Respect the Space – This is our shared space, so let’s keep it in great shape. Be mindful of cleaning up, putting away instruments, and leaving everything just as it was—or better.

Help Each Other Out – Small actions make a big difference. Be mindful of others—whether it’s not blocking the lift, avoiding unnecessary noise, or just helping out when you can. A supportive attitude goes a long way.

Focus on Character First – Above all, we’re here to grow as people as much as musicians. It’s okay if you’re not perfect in music yet; what matters is that you’re growing into the kind of person who brings positivity to others. Let’s prioritize being kind and respectful over everything else.

Let’s make this a place where we’re all excited to come, learn, and grow—together.

When the parents responded, I realized that I had a bigger purpose to fulfill. I think I made a big impact in their life, but at the same time it’s quite humbling.  I can only be grateful. 

As for our rehearsal, I ordered 6 large pizzas for everyone! These brats wiped it clean! They also knew that I was on a diet and were quick to notice that I didn’t snack during the rehearsals. Kids watch what you do, if you don’t stick to your word, they are going to hold you accountable! So I have to be a better person for them, as flawed as I am. 

Looking back, I don’t regret any of my actions or words. If anything, I was honest and true to my feelings. This is where I find my freedom.