Thou shall not judge!

I was of the impression that we must judge people who we are friends with. Only then we can define what kind of relationships we can maintain with them and how long. I am quick to judge, without seeing the complete picture and make mistakes on my judgement sometimes. But most times, my gut feeling is right and I take some chances, hoping to see the goodness in people. 

Though the good book says  "Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.” This is more like an eye for an eye approach. 

People change, they evolve, they emerge they sometimes go back to old ways and that’s ok.

The key here is to know that, no matter what you do, people will disappoint. So, Do NOT waste time judging them, judge yourself and never disappoint yourself. 

The above advice is for yours truly!